"My father was a middle manager at an oil company, but I never knew anything about his work. Whatever business acumen I have just got gleaned over the years"
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“I never knew anything about his work” lands like both a confession and a boundary. It hints at a family culture where work is private, opaque, maybe even emotionally fenced-off - a common midcentury dynamic. For an actress whose public image depends on visibility, the subtext is interestingly inverted: the formative male figure is defined by unknowability. That absence becomes a kind of negative space in the story, making her later self-invention feel less inherited and more assembled.
The final line swerves into pragmatic humility. “Whatever business acumen I have” is a careful downshift from “talent” to “acumen” - the unromantic skill that keeps a career alive after the spotlight. “Gleaned over the years” suggests apprenticeship by observation, not entitlement: she learned the business the way most women of her generation often had to, sideways and late, by watching the room and doing the math in real time. It’s not a triumphal anecdote; it’s a compact statement of how professional survival actually works.
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Mills, Donna. (n.d.). My father was a middle manager at an oil company, but I never knew anything about his work. Whatever business acumen I have just got gleaned over the years. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-father-was-a-middle-manager-at-an-oil-company-50521/
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Mills, Donna. "My father was a middle manager at an oil company, but I never knew anything about his work. Whatever business acumen I have just got gleaned over the years." FixQuotes. Accessed February 1, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-father-was-a-middle-manager-at-an-oil-company-50521/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My father was a middle manager at an oil company, but I never knew anything about his work. Whatever business acumen I have just got gleaned over the years." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-father-was-a-middle-manager-at-an-oil-company-50521/. Accessed 1 Feb. 2026.





