"My father was a sea captain, so was his father, and his father before him, and all my uncles. My mother's people all followed the sea. I suppose that if I had been born a few years earlier, I would have had my own ship"
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The quiet pivot is "I suppose". That mild phrase signals resignation, but also a writer's self-awareness: he is narrating a life that could have been, aware that the difference between captain and storyteller might be calendar math rather than character. "Born a few years earlier" hints at historical change without naming it - the era when independent captains and "my own ship" were plausible gave way to consolidation, steam, corporations, and a modern economy that professionalizes and absorbs what used to be personal ownership. The romance of "my own ship" is immediately tempered by its conditional mood: not I would, but I would have.
Subtextually, Lincoln is doing what many regional writers do at their best: grounding nostalgia in material reality. The sea stands in for an older social order - one where masculinity, status, and autonomy were earned through command. His sentence mourns that world without melodrama, and by keeping the tone plainspoken, it lands harder. The wistfulness feels earned because it’s delivered like family fact.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Lincoln, Joseph C. (2026, January 15). My father was a sea captain, so was his father, and his father before him, and all my uncles. My mother's people all followed the sea. I suppose that if I had been born a few years earlier, I would have had my own ship. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-father-was-a-sea-captain-so-was-his-father-and-165269/
Chicago Style
Lincoln, Joseph C. "My father was a sea captain, so was his father, and his father before him, and all my uncles. My mother's people all followed the sea. I suppose that if I had been born a few years earlier, I would have had my own ship." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-father-was-a-sea-captain-so-was-his-father-and-165269/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My father was a sea captain, so was his father, and his father before him, and all my uncles. My mother's people all followed the sea. I suppose that if I had been born a few years earlier, I would have had my own ship." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-father-was-a-sea-captain-so-was-his-father-and-165269/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.





