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"My father was a waiter basically, and when I got my first professional job as an actor, I left a job that he found me for half the amount of money. So anyone would think that they're stupid, that that would be a stupid move"

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The sting in Molina's memory isn’t the pay cut; it’s the class friction inside it. A father who’s "a waiter basically" isn’t just a biographical detail, it’s an economy of expectations: stability over gamble, dignity earned through reliability, pride tied to providing. When Molina takes "my first professional job as an actor" for "half the amount of money", he’s not simply choosing art over cash. He’s crossing an invisible border between working-class pragmatism and the high-variance fantasy industry that sells hope as a career path.

His phrasing does a lot of work. "Basically" softens the father’s identity into a category, the way kids sometimes minimize a parent’s job to protect themselves from other people’s judgments. Then comes the sharp pivot: the father "found me" the steadier job. That verb carries affection and obligation. The son’s leap becomes, in the father’s frame, a rejection of a concrete act of care.

The line "So anyone would think that they're stupid" lands like a defensive joke told before someone else can tell it. Molina is pre-empting the accusation, acknowledging the logic of the working world while refusing it as the only logic. The subtext is survival math versus meaning math: actors accept irrationality as the entry fee, while parents who’ve lived on wages can’t afford to romanticize risk. It’s a compact portrait of how ambition can look like betrayal when security is hard-won.

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Molina, Alfred. (2026, January 16). My father was a waiter basically, and when I got my first professional job as an actor, I left a job that he found me for half the amount of money. So anyone would think that they're stupid, that that would be a stupid move. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-father-was-a-waiter-basically-and-when-i-got-100489/

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Molina, Alfred. "My father was a waiter basically, and when I got my first professional job as an actor, I left a job that he found me for half the amount of money. So anyone would think that they're stupid, that that would be a stupid move." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-father-was-a-waiter-basically-and-when-i-got-100489/.

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"My father was a waiter basically, and when I got my first professional job as an actor, I left a job that he found me for half the amount of money. So anyone would think that they're stupid, that that would be a stupid move." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-father-was-a-waiter-basically-and-when-i-got-100489/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Alfred Molina (born May 24, 1953) is a Actor from England.

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