"My father was a waiter basically, and when I got my first professional job as an actor, I left a job that he found me for half the amount of money. So anyone would think that they're stupid, that that would be a stupid move"
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His phrasing does a lot of work. "Basically" softens the father’s identity into a category, the way kids sometimes minimize a parent’s job to protect themselves from other people’s judgments. Then comes the sharp pivot: the father "found me" the steadier job. That verb carries affection and obligation. The son’s leap becomes, in the father’s frame, a rejection of a concrete act of care.
The line "So anyone would think that they're stupid" lands like a defensive joke told before someone else can tell it. Molina is pre-empting the accusation, acknowledging the logic of the working world while refusing it as the only logic. The subtext is survival math versus meaning math: actors accept irrationality as the entry fee, while parents who’ve lived on wages can’t afford to romanticize risk. It’s a compact portrait of how ambition can look like betrayal when security is hard-won.
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Molina, Alfred. (2026, January 16). My father was a waiter basically, and when I got my first professional job as an actor, I left a job that he found me for half the amount of money. So anyone would think that they're stupid, that that would be a stupid move. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-father-was-a-waiter-basically-and-when-i-got-100489/
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Molina, Alfred. "My father was a waiter basically, and when I got my first professional job as an actor, I left a job that he found me for half the amount of money. So anyone would think that they're stupid, that that would be a stupid move." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-father-was-a-waiter-basically-and-when-i-got-100489/.
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"My father was a waiter basically, and when I got my first professional job as an actor, I left a job that he found me for half the amount of money. So anyone would think that they're stupid, that that would be a stupid move." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-father-was-a-waiter-basically-and-when-i-got-100489/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






