"My father was in the civil service. I can remember standing in a bus shelter in the pouring rain, and that we were allowed candy floss at the end of the holiday if we had behaved"
About this Quote
The candy floss detail is the emotional pivot. It’s sweet, almost comic, but it arrives conditional: “allowed” only “at the end,” only “if we had behaved.” Blackman is sketching a moral economy where pleasure is rationed and delayed, where self-control becomes currency. That subtext matters because it explains a kind of grit that doesn’t announce itself as hardship. The child isn’t starving; she’s being trained.
There’s also an actor’s instinct for props and timing. Civil service, bus shelter, rain, candy floss: four quick images, each one loaded, none of them sentimentalized. The specificity makes it credible; the understatement makes it British. Read against Blackman’s later icon status, it’s a quiet origin story about discipline and aspiration: a life that starts with waiting in the weather, learning the rules, and taking your reward only after you’ve performed “good behavior” well enough to earn it.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Blackman, Honor. (2026, January 16). My father was in the civil service. I can remember standing in a bus shelter in the pouring rain, and that we were allowed candy floss at the end of the holiday if we had behaved. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-father-was-in-the-civil-service-i-can-remember-88872/
Chicago Style
Blackman, Honor. "My father was in the civil service. I can remember standing in a bus shelter in the pouring rain, and that we were allowed candy floss at the end of the holiday if we had behaved." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-father-was-in-the-civil-service-i-can-remember-88872/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My father was in the civil service. I can remember standing in a bus shelter in the pouring rain, and that we were allowed candy floss at the end of the holiday if we had behaved." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-father-was-in-the-civil-service-i-can-remember-88872/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.







