"My father was the most rational and the most dispassionate of men"
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The pairing matters. "Rational" flatters the Enlightenment ideal of the human as calculator, but "dispassionate" sharpens the blade. It suggests not just clear thinking, but emotional restraint elevated into a moral posture. Newcomb is sketching a household where feeling was either managed or regarded as noise - a domestic culture aligned with the era's faith in scientific objectivity and Victorian self-control. In that light, the line reads like a personal origin story for a professional creed: the disciplined suppression of bias, impulse, even tenderness, as the prerequisite for truth.
There's subtexted defensiveness too. When someone insists on dispassion, you can hear the fear of sentimentality, of being pulled into the messy human world that numbers can't tidy. Newcomb lived in a period when science was hardening into an institution and a personality type. This sentence helps that hardening along: it turns a father into an archetype, then uses the archetype to justify a life of austere clarity.
It's also a small act of love - offered in the only language that feels safe: appraisal, not affection.
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