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Marriage Quote by Vivien Leigh

"My first husband and I are still good friends and there is no earthly reason why I should not see him. Larry and I are very much in love"

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A movie-star marriage rarely belonged to just two people; it belonged to the gossip economy. Leigh’s line reads like a carefully staged close-up: calm, luminous, and strategically framed to control what the audience thinks it’s seeing. “My first husband and I are still good friends” is less confession than preemptive defense, an insistence that divorce doesn’t have to be retroactively rewritten as betrayal. She’s refusing the tidy moral math of the era, where a new romance required an old one to be cast as villainy.

The phrase “no earthly reason” does heavy lifting. It’s a courtroom flourish disguised as casual speech, suggesting that any objections are not practical but prudish, not about harm but about optics. Leigh isn’t just protecting her reputation; she’s challenging the idea that women must sever the past to legitimize the present. “I should not see him” speaks to an invisible committee - studio handlers, columnists, fans - who felt entitled to police her access, her friendships, even her calendar.

Then comes the pivot: “Larry and I are very much in love.” In context, “Larry” signals Olivier, and the line doubles as both reassurance and advertisement. She offers the public the romantic headline it wants, but only after asserting her own terms: she can love a new husband without treating the old one as radioactive. It’s a deft bit of emotional diplomacy - soft voice, hard boundary - revealing a woman navigating fame’s moral theatre while insisting her private life remain, at least partly, hers.

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Leigh, Vivien. (2026, January 17). My first husband and I are still good friends and there is no earthly reason why I should not see him. Larry and I are very much in love. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-first-husband-and-i-are-still-good-friends-and-24435/

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Leigh, Vivien. "My first husband and I are still good friends and there is no earthly reason why I should not see him. Larry and I are very much in love." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-first-husband-and-i-are-still-good-friends-and-24435/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My first husband and I are still good friends and there is no earthly reason why I should not see him. Larry and I are very much in love." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-first-husband-and-i-are-still-good-friends-and-24435/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.

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Vivien Leigh (November 5, 1913 - July 8, 1967) was a Actress from England.

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