"My first three years of high school, I wasn't that cool"
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Coolness is a social currency you only notice when you don’t have it, and Jonathan Bennett’s throwaway-sounding admission plays that awkward truth with a philosopher’s unshowy precision. “My first three years of high school” sets a timeline that’s oddly clinical: not a vague “back then,” but a measured stretch of life, like evidence being entered into the record. The specificity implies the speaker has done the accounting, and the punchline lands on the deflation of “wasn’t that cool” - a phrase that refuses melodrama. He doesn’t say he was excluded, bullied, or miserable. He says he wasn’t cool, which is both smaller and, in adolescence, devastatingly total.
The subtext is a critique of status as something arbitrary yet governing. “Cool” isn’t a moral category; it’s a crowd verdict. By confessing non-coolness without self-pity, Bennett quietly denies the authority of that verdict. The modest “that” does extra work: he’s not claiming absolute uncoolness, just a gap between himself and whatever the dominant standard was. That softens the confession into an observation, the philosopher’s move of turning personal history into a case study.
Context matters because high school is where people learn to confuse recognition with worth. Bennett’s line reads like a retrospective demotion of the whole system: yes, coolness mattered then; no, it doesn’t get to narrate the rest of the life. The intent isn’t to fish for empathy. It’s to reframe shame as data.
The subtext is a critique of status as something arbitrary yet governing. “Cool” isn’t a moral category; it’s a crowd verdict. By confessing non-coolness without self-pity, Bennett quietly denies the authority of that verdict. The modest “that” does extra work: he’s not claiming absolute uncoolness, just a gap between himself and whatever the dominant standard was. That softens the confession into an observation, the philosopher’s move of turning personal history into a case study.
Context matters because high school is where people learn to confuse recognition with worth. Bennett’s line reads like a retrospective demotion of the whole system: yes, coolness mattered then; no, it doesn’t get to narrate the rest of the life. The intent isn’t to fish for empathy. It’s to reframe shame as data.
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| Topic | Youth |
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| Source | Help us find the source |
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