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Art & Creativity Quote by Peter Davison

"My friends never talk to me about my poetry because they're embarrassed that I write it or they're embarrassed by what I write about which are not such extraordinarily terrifying things, but they are the state of human existence"

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Davison’s line lands like a backstage confession: the awkwardness isn’t really about poetry, it’s about intimacy. He frames his friends’ silence as “embarrassment” twice, a neat rhetorical loop that turns their nonresponse into a social diagnosis. Either they’re embarrassed that he writes at all (creative ambition as social risk), or they’re embarrassed by what he writes about (emotional candor as contamination). In both cases, the discomfort belongs to the audience, not the maker.

Coming from an actor, the subtext is especially pointed. Acting is public vulnerability with a script as a buffer; poetry is vulnerability without cover. Davison implies that in his circle, performance is acceptable when it’s clearly labeled as performance, but self-authored feeling triggers a different kind of panic. His insistence that the subjects are “not such extraordinarily terrifying things” reads like a wounded joke: the truly “terrifying” part is that ordinary human existence is enough to make people avert their eyes.

The last clause, “the state of human existence,” shifts the quote from personal gripe to cultural critique. He’s naming a modern etiquette where friends can discuss careers, gossip, even trauma in tidy formats, but recoil from art that refuses to stay decorative. It’s a quiet rebuke of the social contract that says: be expressive, just don’t make it real enough that we have to respond.

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Davison, Peter. (2026, January 16). My friends never talk to me about my poetry because they're embarrassed that I write it or they're embarrassed by what I write about which are not such extraordinarily terrifying things, but they are the state of human existence. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-friends-never-talk-to-me-about-my-poetry-128675/

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Davison, Peter. "My friends never talk to me about my poetry because they're embarrassed that I write it or they're embarrassed by what I write about which are not such extraordinarily terrifying things, but they are the state of human existence." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-friends-never-talk-to-me-about-my-poetry-128675/.

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"My friends never talk to me about my poetry because they're embarrassed that I write it or they're embarrassed by what I write about which are not such extraordinarily terrifying things, but they are the state of human existence." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-friends-never-talk-to-me-about-my-poetry-128675/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Peter Davison

Peter Davison (born April 13, 1951) is a Actor from United Kingdom.

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