"My future's about trying to be a better man"
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The phrasing does something clever with accountability. “Trying to be” admits imperfection without begging for absolution. It implies a record worth improving on, but refuses to litigate it in the sentence itself. That omission is the subtext: the audience is expected to bring their own headlines, rumors, and judgments to the table. By keeping the specifics offstage, Howard shifts focus from the details of whatever he’s being asked about to a bigger narrative of growth. It’s a classic media move, but it doesn’t feel entirely slick because the goal is modest: “a better man,” not “the best version of myself.”
There’s also a coded masculinity here. He’s not talking about being “happier” or “healed”; he’s talking about being “better,” a word that suggests discipline, restraint, repairing harm. For an actor whose public persona has oscillated between charisma and controversy, this reads as both confession and boundary-setting: judge me if you must, but the only future I’m willing to discuss is the one where I do the work.
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| Topic | Self-Improvement |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Howard, Terrence. (2026, January 15). My future's about trying to be a better man. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-futures-about-trying-to-be-a-better-man-154199/
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Howard, Terrence. "My future's about trying to be a better man." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-futures-about-trying-to-be-a-better-man-154199/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My future's about trying to be a better man." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-futures-about-trying-to-be-a-better-man-154199/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.












