"My grandfather was a chef for a Baron in Sicily before he came to America. I grew up with him. I used to do my homework at one end of the kitchen table while he cooked at the other end"
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The image is staged with cinematic economy: one kitchen table, two forms of labor. Homework at one end, cooking at the other. Schiavelli makes assimilation feel less like an ideology and more like a shared surface where generations negotiate their roles. The child’s “work” is abstract and future-facing, aimed at credentials; the grandfather’s is sensory, immediate, learned by repetition. The subtext is affectionate but unsentimental: education and tradition aren’t competing narratives, they’re simultaneous acts happening in the same room, occasionally in the same silence.
As an actor often cast for his distinctive presence, Schiavelli’s memory also reads like a backstory for performance: watching hands, timing, improvisation, the choreography of a kitchen. He’s telling you where his sense of character came from. Not from glamour, but from proximity to a man translating an old country into daily ritual while a new country demanded homework.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Schiavelli, Vincent. (2026, January 16). My grandfather was a chef for a Baron in Sicily before he came to America. I grew up with him. I used to do my homework at one end of the kitchen table while he cooked at the other end. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-grandfather-was-a-chef-for-a-baron-in-sicily-129533/
Chicago Style
Schiavelli, Vincent. "My grandfather was a chef for a Baron in Sicily before he came to America. I grew up with him. I used to do my homework at one end of the kitchen table while he cooked at the other end." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-grandfather-was-a-chef-for-a-baron-in-sicily-129533/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My grandfather was a chef for a Baron in Sicily before he came to America. I grew up with him. I used to do my homework at one end of the kitchen table while he cooked at the other end." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-grandfather-was-a-chef-for-a-baron-in-sicily-129533/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.





