"My grandmother played the piano, and I used to toddle over there and pick out little things that sounded good to me"
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The grandmother matters as much as the instrument. In early 20th-century Black American life, the home was frequently the most reliable conservatory available, a place where aspiration could be nurtured without institutional permission. Strayhorn’s memory quietly honors that domestic lineage: creativity as inheritance, not in the genetic sense, but in the access sense. Someone owned a piano. Someone allowed a child to explore it. That’s opportunity in miniature.
“Little things” also signals how Strayhorn’s artistry would later function inside larger machines: big bands, Broadway, Ellington’s orbit. He became famous for sophistication and harmonic daring, yet much of his public legacy is threaded through collaboration and partial visibility. This anecdote feels like a preface to that life: the power of small decisions, small phrases, a few notes placed just so. It suggests a composer who trusted intuition early and never stopped refining it - a reminder that what we call style often begins as private play before it becomes public architecture.
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Strayhorn, Billy. (2026, January 15). My grandmother played the piano, and I used to toddle over there and pick out little things that sounded good to me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-grandmother-played-the-piano-and-i-used-to-167059/
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Strayhorn, Billy. "My grandmother played the piano, and I used to toddle over there and pick out little things that sounded good to me." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-grandmother-played-the-piano-and-i-used-to-167059/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My grandmother played the piano, and I used to toddle over there and pick out little things that sounded good to me." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-grandmother-played-the-piano-and-i-used-to-167059/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.




