"My grandmother was, back when they called them 'stewardesses,' a flight attendant. I actually had a ball wearing that little uniform and making sure everything was under control"
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Then she flips the expected register. Instead of framing the uniform as a symbol of objectification, she says she “had a ball” wearing it. That choice reads less like ignorance than reclamation: a performer’s delight in costume and role-play, yes, but also an insistence that pleasure and agency can coexist inside an aesthetic people often reduce to a stereotype. Uniforms can be cages; they can also be armor.
The clincher is “making sure everything was under control.” That’s the fantasy of the flight attendant and, not incidentally, of the actor: maintaining composure while managing other people’s emotions in a tightly choreographed space. Christensen’s subtext is competence dressed as charm. She’s not romanticizing servitude so much as spotlighting the invisible managerial labor of “care work” - the calm voice that keeps the cabin (or the set, or the room) from tipping into chaos. The anecdote doubles as a self-portrait: someone who enjoys performance, but craves mastery.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Christensen, Erika. (2026, January 16). My grandmother was, back when they called them 'stewardesses,' a flight attendant. I actually had a ball wearing that little uniform and making sure everything was under control. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-grandmother-was-back-when-they-called-them-87587/
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Christensen, Erika. "My grandmother was, back when they called them 'stewardesses,' a flight attendant. I actually had a ball wearing that little uniform and making sure everything was under control." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-grandmother-was-back-when-they-called-them-87587/.
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"My grandmother was, back when they called them 'stewardesses,' a flight attendant. I actually had a ball wearing that little uniform and making sure everything was under control." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-grandmother-was-back-when-they-called-them-87587/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.


