"My identity has everything to do with me and my instrument. It doesn't have to do with what production style I use, or how many people played on it, whether it's sparse or grandiose or whatever. And I'm social, frankly"
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The intent is a reframe: her selfhood isn’t a sonic aesthetic, it’s a point of view. She’s arguing that authorship can survive polish, collaboration, even spectacle. That matters for someone who came up as an indie-rock standard-bearer and then absorbed years of backlash whenever her music brushed up against pop gloss. The subtext reads like fatigue with a double standard: men can “evolve” and “experiment,” while women get accused of being “produced.”
The last line, “And I’m social, frankly,” is the kicker. It’s a preemptive strike against the myth that seriousness requires isolation and dourness. She’s telling you collaboration isn’t contamination; it’s personality. Underneath it all is a demand to be treated like a working musician, not a character in the authenticity police’s morality play.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Phair, Liz. (2026, January 17). My identity has everything to do with me and my instrument. It doesn't have to do with what production style I use, or how many people played on it, whether it's sparse or grandiose or whatever. And I'm social, frankly. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-identity-has-everything-to-do-with-me-and-my-81721/
Chicago Style
Phair, Liz. "My identity has everything to do with me and my instrument. It doesn't have to do with what production style I use, or how many people played on it, whether it's sparse or grandiose or whatever. And I'm social, frankly." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-identity-has-everything-to-do-with-me-and-my-81721/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My identity has everything to do with me and my instrument. It doesn't have to do with what production style I use, or how many people played on it, whether it's sparse or grandiose or whatever. And I'm social, frankly." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-identity-has-everything-to-do-with-me-and-my-81721/. Accessed 19 Feb. 2026.



