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Marriage Quote by Michael Lewis

"My judgement is not good when I am on a book tour. I am not thinking about it that much. What happens is I will go back home. I have a 4-year-old and a 1-year-old and a wife who is now taking care of them who is wondering where her husband is"

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Michael Lewis is usually cast as the cool-headed narrator of other people’s bad decisions, the guy who can turn systemic failure into a page-turner. Here he flips the lens on himself and admits something almost taboo in the productivity age: his judgment gets worse when his professional identity is most visible. The book tour, that glossy reward for finishing the work, becomes a cognitive and moral fog. He’s not “thinking about it that much” because the machinery of promotion demands a different self - reactive, charming, constantly on. It’s a quiet confession that public performance crowds out private discernment.

The subtext lives in the domestic detail. Naming the kids’ ages isn’t just scene-setting; it’s a timestamp of vulnerability and imbalance. A four-year-old and a one-year-old are all need, no flexibility. Lewis frames his absence through his wife’s perspective - “wondering where her husband is” - which reads like guilt but also like an attempt to keep the family, not the career, as the moral center of the story. He’s signaling awareness that the labor isn’t evenly distributed, that the cost of his cultural capital is being quietly paid at home.

Contextually, it’s an anti-myth about authorship. We like our writers either solitary geniuses or media-savvy brands; Lewis points to the messy third category: the working parent who sells insight for a living while misplacing his own life for a few weeks at a time. That tension is exactly the kind of human collateral his books so often document.

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Michael Lewis (born October 15, 1960) is a Writer from USA.

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