"My judgement is not good when I am on a book tour. I am not thinking about it that much. What happens is I will go back home. I have a 4-year-old and a 1-year-old and a wife who is now taking care of them, who is wondering where her husband is"
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The subtext lives in the domestic detail. Naming the kids’ ages isn’t just scene-setting; it’s a timestamp of vulnerability and imbalance. A four-year-old and a one-year-old are all need, no flexibility. Lewis frames his absence through his wife’s perspective - “wondering where her husband is” - which reads like guilt but also like an attempt to keep the family, not the career, as the moral center of the story. He’s signaling awareness that the labor isn’t evenly distributed, that the cost of his cultural capital is being quietly paid at home.
Contextually, it’s an anti-myth about authorship. We like our writers either solitary geniuses or media-savvy brands; Lewis points to the messy third category: the working parent who sells insight for a living while misplacing his own life for a few weeks at a time. That tension is exactly the kind of human collateral his books so often document.
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Lewis, Michael. (2026, February 16). My judgement is not good when I am on a book tour. I am not thinking about it that much. What happens is I will go back home. I have a 4-year-old and a 1-year-old and a wife who is now taking care of them, who is wondering where her husband is. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-judgement-is-not-good-when-i-am-on-a-book-tour-127853/
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Lewis, Michael. "My judgement is not good when I am on a book tour. I am not thinking about it that much. What happens is I will go back home. I have a 4-year-old and a 1-year-old and a wife who is now taking care of them, who is wondering where her husband is." FixQuotes. February 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-judgement-is-not-good-when-i-am-on-a-book-tour-127853/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My judgement is not good when I am on a book tour. I am not thinking about it that much. What happens is I will go back home. I have a 4-year-old and a 1-year-old and a wife who is now taking care of them, who is wondering where her husband is." FixQuotes, 16 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-judgement-is-not-good-when-i-am-on-a-book-tour-127853/. Accessed 25 Feb. 2026.




