"My life has been full of terrible misfortunes most of which never happened"
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The wit is diagnostic. By calling these misfortunes “terrible” and then admitting “most… never happened,” he stages the humiliating reversal we all recognize: the fear felt real, the suffering was genuine, yet the cause was fictional. That gap is the subtext. He’s not minimizing pain so much as relocating its origin from the world to the self - specifically to the mind’s talent for anticipation, rumination, and narrative inflation.
Context matters: Montaigne writes in an era of religious wars, plague, and political instability, when misfortune was not hypothetical. That’s why the sentence bites. It’s not naive optimism; it’s a hard-won skepticism about our inner dramatist. In the Essays, he’s constantly testing experience against the stories we tell about it, and he’s suspicious of philosophy that floats above ordinary life. Here, ordinary life supplies the lesson: we suffer twice - once in imagination, once (maybe) in fact - and the first suffering is the one we can actually interrogate.
It’s also quietly strategic. If most calamities never arrive, then courage isn’t just battlefield heroics; it’s the daily discipline of refusing to let the future colonize the present.
Quote Details
| Topic | Anxiety |
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| Source | Later attribution: Michel de Montaigne (Michel de Montaigne) modern compilation
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