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Happiness Quote by Maya Angelou

"My life has been one great big joke, a dance that's walked a song that's spoke, I laugh so hard I almost choke when I think about myself"

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A life described as a joke could read like self-erasure, but in Maya Angelou's hands it lands as a dare: you can’t reduce me without hearing the punchline I chose. The line tumbles forward on purpose, stacking mismatched metaphors - joke, dance, walk, song, speech - until the categories blur. That jumble is the point. Angelou is sketching a self that refuses tidy narration, a Black woman’s life that has been forced, again and again, into other people’s genres: spectacle, entertainment, cautionary tale, inspiration. She recasts that coercion as performance on her own terms.

The sound work matters as much as the sense. The internal rhymes and clipped beats feel like a routine, almost vaudevillian, but the comedy is edged: “I laugh so hard I almost choke.” That’s not just a funny exaggeration; it’s the body reminding you what survival costs. Laughter becomes a pressure valve, and nearly becomes suffocation - a sly admission that humor can be both weapon and wound.

Contextually, Angelou’s poetry often stages resilience without pretending it’s effortless. She knew the public’s appetite for triumphant narratives, especially from artists turned symbols. This line plays with that appetite, offering a grin that’s also a critique. If her life is a joke, it’s because the world has been absurd, violent, and smugly certain about who gets to be taken seriously. The subtext: I’m laughing, but I’m also keeping score.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Angelou, Maya. (2026, January 15). My life has been one great big joke, a dance that's walked a song that's spoke, I laugh so hard I almost choke when I think about myself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-life-has-been-one-great-big-joke-a-dance-thats-35674/

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Angelou, Maya. "My life has been one great big joke, a dance that's walked a song that's spoke, I laugh so hard I almost choke when I think about myself." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-life-has-been-one-great-big-joke-a-dance-thats-35674/.

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"My life has been one great big joke, a dance that's walked a song that's spoke, I laugh so hard I almost choke when I think about myself." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-life-has-been-one-great-big-joke-a-dance-thats-35674/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Maya Angelou

Maya Angelou (born April 4, 1928) is a Poet from USA.

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