"My marriage had been impulsive. That marriage should have been short-lived instead of the 23 years it spanned"
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The subtext reads less like bitterness than belated clarity. He’s not narrating a single betrayal or a dramatic collapse; he’s critiquing duration. Twenty-three years becomes evidence, not accomplishment: time served, not time shared. That flips a cultural script that treats longevity as moral proof. Barbera, who spent his life building tight, efficient narratives where the gag lands and the scene moves on, seems to apply the same economy to his private life - and judges the marriage by pacing.
Context matters: men of his era were trained to treat marital endurance as duty and to keep dissatisfaction offstage. This line feels like an older man finally breaking character, offering an unvarnished postmortem with the candor (and control) of someone used to getting to the beat that matters.
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| Topic | Marriage |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Barbera, Joseph. (2026, January 17). My marriage had been impulsive. That marriage should have been short-lived instead of the 23 years it spanned. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-marriage-had-been-impulsive-that-marriage-24252/
Chicago Style
Barbera, Joseph. "My marriage had been impulsive. That marriage should have been short-lived instead of the 23 years it spanned." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-marriage-had-been-impulsive-that-marriage-24252/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My marriage had been impulsive. That marriage should have been short-lived instead of the 23 years it spanned." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-marriage-had-been-impulsive-that-marriage-24252/. Accessed 20 Feb. 2026.








