"My m.o. as far as choosing projects is I really try not to work. I try to not do the scripts that are offered me. I'm in this wonderful position to be able to do that. The reason I do that is because I know what it takes once I engage, what that means for me personally and for my wife"
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What makes the quote effective is its quiet honesty about leverage. “I’m in this wonderful position” acknowledges the hierarchy without apologizing for it. Bridges is naming a luxury most actors never get: the ability to say no. That admission also reframes “choosing projects” from artistic destiny into labor economics. He’s not just curating roles; he’s rationing his life.
The turn toward “what that means for me personally and for my wife” widens the lens. It’s a reminder that creative work is rarely contained to set hours. A role can commandeer a household: travel, mood, obsession, absence. Bridges’ intent reads like boundary-setting dressed up as surfer-dude humor. In an industry that romanticizes grind and calls it passion, he’s arguing that the real flex isn’t constant motion; it’s the power to protect your time, your attention, and your marriage.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bridges, Jeff. (2026, January 16). My m.o. as far as choosing projects is I really try not to work. I try to not do the scripts that are offered me. I'm in this wonderful position to be able to do that. The reason I do that is because I know what it takes once I engage, what that means for me personally and for my wife. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-mo-as-far-as-choosing-projects-is-i-really-try-83136/
Chicago Style
Bridges, Jeff. "My m.o. as far as choosing projects is I really try not to work. I try to not do the scripts that are offered me. I'm in this wonderful position to be able to do that. The reason I do that is because I know what it takes once I engage, what that means for me personally and for my wife." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-mo-as-far-as-choosing-projects-is-i-really-try-83136/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My m.o. as far as choosing projects is I really try not to work. I try to not do the scripts that are offered me. I'm in this wonderful position to be able to do that. The reason I do that is because I know what it takes once I engage, what that means for me personally and for my wife." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-mo-as-far-as-choosing-projects-is-i-really-try-83136/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.