"My mom used to make everything. She had a great garden and composted and made everything from scratch - peanut butter, bread, jelly, everything. I don't know how she did it because all those things take time and love and labour. I only do half the stuff she does - but there's still time"
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The triad “time and love and labour” is the quote’s moral engine. By yoking affection to effort, Roberts insists that care has a material cost. It’s a subtle corrective to the way domestic work gets sentimentalized into “love” and therefore disappears as labor. At the same time, she’s honest about the gap between generations: “I only do half the stuff she does.” That isn’t self-flagellation so much as a portrait of modern constraint - paid work, scheduling, the fragmentation of attention. The subtext is that the old model of total homemaking wasn’t just a personal choice; it required a household economy that many people no longer have.
Then she pivots: “but there’s still time.” It lands as both reassurance and resistance. Not a promise to do it all, but a refusal to treat busyness as destiny. In a culture that sells convenience as freedom, Roberts romanticizes the slower craft of care - while admitting it’s hard, and that the hardest part is time.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Roberts, Julia. (2026, January 15). My mom used to make everything. She had a great garden and composted and made everything from scratch - peanut butter, bread, jelly, everything. I don't know how she did it because all those things take time and love and labour. I only do half the stuff she does - but there's still time. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-mom-used-to-make-everything-she-had-a-great-156442/
Chicago Style
Roberts, Julia. "My mom used to make everything. She had a great garden and composted and made everything from scratch - peanut butter, bread, jelly, everything. I don't know how she did it because all those things take time and love and labour. I only do half the stuff she does - but there's still time." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-mom-used-to-make-everything-she-had-a-great-156442/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My mom used to make everything. She had a great garden and composted and made everything from scratch - peanut butter, bread, jelly, everything. I don't know how she did it because all those things take time and love and labour. I only do half the stuff she does - but there's still time." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-mom-used-to-make-everything-she-had-a-great-156442/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.


