"My mom was always pretty supportive. She saw me do plays and she'd always act out the parts I did. My aunt, who played a big part in my life, was a little bit more reserved, because if they don't see you on TV every week they think you must be starving"
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Then she pivots to the aunt, and the line snaps into cultural critique. The reservation isnt about taste; its about economics and proof. "If they don't see you on TV every week" captures a very specific, very American demand that art justify itself through constant visibility. Success has to be broadcast on a schedule or it doesn't count. The subtext is how entertainment work actually functions: long stretches of auditioning, training, rejection, and quiet labor that looks like unemployment from the outside. Bassett's punchline - "they think you must be starving" - is funny because its blunt, but it also points to how precarious the path is, especially for families who didn't grow up with a safety net or industry connections.
Context matters: for a Black actress coming up in an era when roles and opportunities were narrower, the fear is rational. Her mother offers imaginative support; her aunt represents the protective skepticism of people who know bills don't care about artistic destiny. The quote works because it refuses to romanticize either side. It shows how talent isn't just developed onstage; its negotiated at the kitchen table.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bassett, Angela. (2026, January 17). My mom was always pretty supportive. She saw me do plays and she'd always act out the parts I did. My aunt, who played a big part in my life, was a little bit more reserved, because if they don't see you on TV every week they think you must be starving. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-mom-was-always-pretty-supportive-she-saw-me-do-36945/
Chicago Style
Bassett, Angela. "My mom was always pretty supportive. She saw me do plays and she'd always act out the parts I did. My aunt, who played a big part in my life, was a little bit more reserved, because if they don't see you on TV every week they think you must be starving." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-mom-was-always-pretty-supportive-she-saw-me-do-36945/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My mom was always pretty supportive. She saw me do plays and she'd always act out the parts I did. My aunt, who played a big part in my life, was a little bit more reserved, because if they don't see you on TV every week they think you must be starving." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-mom-was-always-pretty-supportive-she-saw-me-do-36945/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.






