"My mom was my first love. She's the one who loved me when I didn't love myself"
About this Quote
The second sentence is the quiet gut punch: “She’s the one who loved me when I didn’t love myself.” That’s not just gratitude; it’s a confession of a period where self-worth wasn’t a given. The subtext is mental health without saying “mental health” - a refusal of the invincible-alpha posture, especially in the NBA ecosystem where confidence is both currency and armor. By framing his mother’s love as something that preceded (and possibly enabled) his own self-regard, Durant suggests success didn’t cure insecurity; it sat on top of it.
Context matters: Durant has publicly credited his mother, Wanda Pratt, in one of his most iconic moments (the 2014 MVP speech), making “real MVP” shorthand for a particular kind of devotion. This quote extends that narrative past inspiration-porn and into something more adult: love as continuous labor, not a victory lap. It’s a reminder that the most powerful support system isn’t hype - it’s patience when the person you’re backing can’t yet imagine they’re worth it.
Quote Details
| Topic | Mother |
|---|---|
| Source | Kevin Durant, MVP acceptance speech (2014 NBA MVP, May 6, 2014). |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Durant, Kevin. (2026, February 16). My mom was my first love. She's the one who loved me when I didn't love myself. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-mom-was-my-first-love-shes-the-one-who-loved-184149/
Chicago Style
Durant, Kevin. "My mom was my first love. She's the one who loved me when I didn't love myself." FixQuotes. February 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-mom-was-my-first-love-shes-the-one-who-loved-184149/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My mom was my first love. She's the one who loved me when I didn't love myself." FixQuotes, 16 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-mom-was-my-first-love-shes-the-one-who-loved-184149/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.






