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Motherhood Quote by Boy George

"My mother and father were fantastic, very active. I find it difficult to say this, but I'm quite a loving person and I've always been loving to my friends. In the long run, that pays off. I'm very interested in other people, and if you are, they're interested in you"

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Boy George isn’t selling sweetness here so much as defending it. Coming from a figure whose public image was built on provocation, ambiguity, and a certain glamorous antagonism toward mainstream expectations, the insistence on being “quite a loving person” lands like a corrective. The telling phrase is “I find it difficult to say this”: affection, for him, reads as a kind of vulnerability that doesn’t naturally fit the hard shell celebrity culture rewards. He’s admitting that tenderness takes effort to articulate when your brand is attitude.

The nod to “fantastic, very active” parents quietly reframes his origin story. It pushes back against the familiar pop narrative that eccentricity must be born from damage. Instead, he sketches a background of engagement and attention, then links it to an adult ethic: love as practice, not personality. “In the long run, that pays off” translates intimacy into a long-game investment strategy, which is both slightly transactional and totally honest. Friendship isn’t mystical; it’s maintenance.

The last line is the most culturally sharp: “If you are [interested in other people], they’re interested in you.” It’s a simple social physics that cuts against fame’s one-way mirror, where the world looks at you while you stop looking back. In an era of curated personas and self-focused “authenticity,” he’s proposing a surprisingly old-fashioned method: attention. Not performance, not confessionals, not branding - curiosity. That’s the subtext of survival for a pop icon who’s outlasted scenes, scandals, and trends by staying relational rather than merely visible.

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George, Boy. (n.d.). My mother and father were fantastic, very active. I find it difficult to say this, but I'm quite a loving person and I've always been loving to my friends. In the long run, that pays off. I'm very interested in other people, and if you are, they're interested in you. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-mother-and-father-were-fantastic-very-active-i-139862/

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George, Boy. "My mother and father were fantastic, very active. I find it difficult to say this, but I'm quite a loving person and I've always been loving to my friends. In the long run, that pays off. I'm very interested in other people, and if you are, they're interested in you." FixQuotes. Accessed February 1, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-mother-and-father-were-fantastic-very-active-i-139862/.

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"My mother and father were fantastic, very active. I find it difficult to say this, but I'm quite a loving person and I've always been loving to my friends. In the long run, that pays off. I'm very interested in other people, and if you are, they're interested in you." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-mother-and-father-were-fantastic-very-active-i-139862/. Accessed 1 Feb. 2026.

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Boy George (born June 14, 1961) is a Musician from England.

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