"My mother gave me a push. If I hadn't had her, maybe I wouldn't have had the push. If I hadn't gone to military school, maybe I wouldn't have decided to get with the program. Maybe I'd be running a bulldozer, rather than going on and doing something more"
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The subtext is gratitude without sentimentality. Donaldson doesn’t romanticize struggle or pretend he was born with journalistic fire. He credits external pressure, especially maternal ambition, as the forcing function that turned potential into trajectory. "Push" does double duty: it’s parental encouragement, but also social coercion - a reminder that mobility is frequently engineered, not discovered.
Then he drops the bulldozer line, a piece of Americana that lands hard because it’s specific. Not "I’d be doing manual labor", but a single machine, a single job, a tangible alternate life. It’s also a class marker: the difference between operating heavy equipment and becoming a national political journalist is not merely taste; it’s access, schooling, and someone insisting you aim higher.
Context matters: coming of age in mid-century America, military school reads as a culturally acceptable pipeline for discipline and upward movement. Donaldson’s intent isn’t to shame that other path; it’s to puncture the myth that prominence is purely self-made.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Donaldson, Sam. (2026, January 16). My mother gave me a push. If I hadn't had her, maybe I wouldn't have had the push. If I hadn't gone to military school, maybe I wouldn't have decided to get with the program. Maybe I'd be running a bulldozer, rather than going on and doing something more. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-mother-gave-me-a-push-if-i-hadnt-had-her-maybe-106372/
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Donaldson, Sam. "My mother gave me a push. If I hadn't had her, maybe I wouldn't have had the push. If I hadn't gone to military school, maybe I wouldn't have decided to get with the program. Maybe I'd be running a bulldozer, rather than going on and doing something more." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-mother-gave-me-a-push-if-i-hadnt-had-her-maybe-106372/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My mother gave me a push. If I hadn't had her, maybe I wouldn't have had the push. If I hadn't gone to military school, maybe I wouldn't have decided to get with the program. Maybe I'd be running a bulldozer, rather than going on and doing something more." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-mother-gave-me-a-push-if-i-hadnt-had-her-maybe-106372/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.




