"My mother is a very strange woman... She doesn't understand me in the least and doesn't love me much either. If she had either love or understanding she would be prepared to make sacrifices"
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The real accusation is transactional: love or understanding would translate into “sacrifices.” He’s defining care as material risk - money, reputation, accommodation - the kinds of things a parent is expected to spend so an unconventional child can keep moving. In that sense, the line isn’t just about affection; it’s about patronage. Schiele, an artist who made his name through erotic, abrasive work, knew exactly what he was asking others to absorb on his behalf: scandal, instability, the optics of having a son who refuses to be safe.
The subtext is even harsher: if she won’t sacrifice, her feelings don’t count. That’s adolescent logic with adult stakes. It’s also self-mythmaking. Schiele casts himself as the misunderstood visionary and his mother as the provincial gatekeeper, a narrative that conveniently turns personal disappointment into artistic fuel. Seen in the context of early 20th-century Austrian respectability - and the real-world consequences Schiele faced for his art - the quote reads less like self-pity than a cold inventory of who will pay the price for his freedom, and who won’t.
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| Topic | Mother |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Schiele, Egon. (2026, January 15). My mother is a very strange woman... She doesn't understand me in the least and doesn't love me much either. If she had either love or understanding she would be prepared to make sacrifices. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-mother-is-a-very-strange-woman-she-doesnt-46442/
Chicago Style
Schiele, Egon. "My mother is a very strange woman... She doesn't understand me in the least and doesn't love me much either. If she had either love or understanding she would be prepared to make sacrifices." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-mother-is-a-very-strange-woman-she-doesnt-46442/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My mother is a very strange woman... She doesn't understand me in the least and doesn't love me much either. If she had either love or understanding she would be prepared to make sacrifices." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-mother-is-a-very-strange-woman-she-doesnt-46442/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.




