"My mother protected me from the world, and my father threatened me with it"
About this Quote
The subtext is about conditioning and conformity, the way family becomes the first border patrol. Crisp isn’t just describing two parenting styles; he’s mapping the psychological architecture of shame. In that house, “the world” is a warning label: behave, or we’ll hand you over to the crowd. That’s a particularly pointed fear for someone who grew up queer and conspicuously unassimilable in early 20th-century Britain, where the “world” meant policing, ridicule, violence, unemployment, and the slow grind of respectability politics. A father invoking the world is invoking the law, the street, the laugh, the punch.
Crisp’s genius is that he keeps the language domestically simple. No sociological terms, no moralizing. He lets the sentence do what his persona always did: make candor perform. The mother’s protection sounds loving, but it also hints at a bargain - safety in exchange for fragility. The father’s threat sounds harsh, yet it acknowledges a truth: the world is real, and it will have its say. Between them, Crisp locates the origin story of his later stance - surviving by style, by wit, by turning the gaze back on the very world he was warned about.
Quote Details
| Topic | Family |
|---|---|
| Source | Quentin Crisp — Wikiquote page listing quotes attributed to Crisp (includes: "My mother protected me from the world and my father threatened me with it"). |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Crisp, Quentin. (2026, February 20). My mother protected me from the world, and my father threatened me with it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-mother-protected-me-from-the-world-and-my-12365/
Chicago Style
Crisp, Quentin. "My mother protected me from the world, and my father threatened me with it." FixQuotes. February 20, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-mother-protected-me-from-the-world-and-my-12365/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My mother protected me from the world, and my father threatened me with it." FixQuotes, 20 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-mother-protected-me-from-the-world-and-my-12365/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.
