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War & Peace Quote by Margaret Cavendish

"My other brother, the Lord Lucas, who was heir to my father's estate, and as it were the father to take care of us all, is not less valiant than they were, although his skill in the discipline of war was not so much, not being bred therein"

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Aristocratic masculinity is being graded here with a surprisingly modern awareness of PR versus preparation. Cavendish praises her brother, Lord Lucas, as “heir” and “as it were the father to take care of us all,” then immediately complicates the compliment: he is “not less valiant,” just not as schooled in “the discipline of war,” because he wasn’t “bred therein.” The sentence performs a careful balancing act between family loyalty and factual record, a tightrope any woman writing publicly in the mid-17th century had to learn to walk.

The intent is partly defensive. Cavendish is protecting a family reputation in a culture where honor is militarized and where a nobleman’s worth can be collapsed into battlefield competence. By separating “valiant” (innate courage, moral fiber) from “skill” (technical training), she rescues his status without inventing expertise he didn’t have. That’s also subtextual feminism-by-proxy: if war is a “discipline” you’re “bred” into, then it’s not a natural destiny but a cultivated role. Lineage produces authority; education produces performance.

Context matters. Cavendish wrote in the shadow of the English Civil Wars, when loyalties and outcomes were politically radioactive. Calling Lucas a caretaker-figure frames him as paternal stabilizer rather than reckless partisan. The modesty clause (“not so much”) is strategic humility, but it’s also a critique of a society that demands martial fluency from men while denying most women any comparable pathway to recognized “discipline.” She writes as someone fluent in the codes, and subtly skeptical of them.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Cavendish, Margaret. (n.d.). My other brother, the Lord Lucas, who was heir to my father's estate, and as it were the father to take care of us all, is not less valiant than they were, although his skill in the discipline of war was not so much, not being bred therein. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-other-brother-the-lord-lucas-who-was-heir-to-156731/

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Cavendish, Margaret. "My other brother, the Lord Lucas, who was heir to my father's estate, and as it were the father to take care of us all, is not less valiant than they were, although his skill in the discipline of war was not so much, not being bred therein." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-other-brother-the-lord-lucas-who-was-heir-to-156731/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My other brother, the Lord Lucas, who was heir to my father's estate, and as it were the father to take care of us all, is not less valiant than they were, although his skill in the discipline of war was not so much, not being bred therein." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-other-brother-the-lord-lucas-who-was-heir-to-156731/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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Margaret Cavendish (1623 AC - 1673 AC) was a Writer from England.

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