"My other brother, the Lord Lucas, who was heir to my father's estate, and as it were the father to take care of us all, is not less valiant than they were, although his skill in the discipline of war was not so much, not being bred therein"
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The intent is partly defensive. Cavendish is protecting a family reputation in a culture where honor is militarized and where a nobleman’s worth can be collapsed into battlefield competence. By separating “valiant” (innate courage, moral fiber) from “skill” (technical training), she rescues his status without inventing expertise he didn’t have. That’s also subtextual feminism-by-proxy: if war is a “discipline” you’re “bred” into, then it’s not a natural destiny but a cultivated role. Lineage produces authority; education produces performance.
Context matters. Cavendish wrote in the shadow of the English Civil Wars, when loyalties and outcomes were politically radioactive. Calling Lucas a caretaker-figure frames him as paternal stabilizer rather than reckless partisan. The modesty clause (“not so much”) is strategic humility, but it’s also a critique of a society that demands martial fluency from men while denying most women any comparable pathway to recognized “discipline.” She writes as someone fluent in the codes, and subtly skeptical of them.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Cavendish, Margaret. (n.d.). My other brother, the Lord Lucas, who was heir to my father's estate, and as it were the father to take care of us all, is not less valiant than they were, although his skill in the discipline of war was not so much, not being bred therein. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-other-brother-the-lord-lucas-who-was-heir-to-156731/
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Cavendish, Margaret. "My other brother, the Lord Lucas, who was heir to my father's estate, and as it were the father to take care of us all, is not less valiant than they were, although his skill in the discipline of war was not so much, not being bred therein." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-other-brother-the-lord-lucas-who-was-heir-to-156731/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My other brother, the Lord Lucas, who was heir to my father's estate, and as it were the father to take care of us all, is not less valiant than they were, although his skill in the discipline of war was not so much, not being bred therein." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-other-brother-the-lord-lucas-who-was-heir-to-156731/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.



