"My own early crusade for same-sex marriage, for example, is now mainstream gay politics. It wasn't when I started"
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Context matters because Sullivan’s pro-marriage argument emerged in the early 1990s, when queer politics was still shaped by AIDS catastrophe, ACT UP militancy, and suspicion of assimilation. Marriage could look like capitulation to institutions that had excluded, policed, and pathologized gay life. Sullivan, a conservative-leaning gay Catholic, made the case anyway: not liberation from norms, but access to them; not a new sexual politics, but equal citizenship. That tension is the engine of the line.
The sentence also performs a soft rebuke. If the movement has moved toward him, it implies it once misread the moment, perhaps privileging radical aesthetics over winnable rights. And there’s an implicit warning embedded in the self-congratulation: today’s heresies can become tomorrow’s consensus. Sullivan isn’t only claiming credit for marriage; he’s arguing for his relevance in whatever comes next, by reminding readers he has been right before - especially when it wasn’t popular to be.
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"My own early crusade for same-sex marriage, for example, is now mainstream gay politics. It wasn't when I started." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-own-early-crusade-for-same-sex-marriage-for-38768/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.


