"My own funeral, I'd like to be laid out in a coffin in my own house. I would like my coffin to be put in the double parlor, and I would like all the flowers to be white"
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The subtext is vintage Rice: intimacy with the macabre without surrendering to it. A coffin in the home collapses the distance modern life puts between the living and the dead; it drags mortality back into the domestic frame, making grief less outsourced, more witnessed. The double parlor is telling, too. It’s a space built for performance and reception, a room that exists to host. Rice imagines death as one last salon where community gathers around her body, not a sanitized chapel far from her everyday life.
Then there’s the white. In a gothic imagination, white is never just innocence; it’s also pallor, linen, lilies, the glare of purity that can feel accusatory. Rice’s work loved the tension between sacred and profane, beauty and rot, Catholic iconography and sensual transgression. White flowers turn the funeral into a kind of aesthetic absolution, or at least a truce: if death is inevitable, it will be, at minimum, coherent. Even her afterlife gets art direction.
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Rice, Anne. (2026, January 15). My own funeral, I'd like to be laid out in a coffin in my own house. I would like my coffin to be put in the double parlor, and I would like all the flowers to be white. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-own-funeral-id-like-to-be-laid-out-in-a-coffin-38832/
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Rice, Anne. "My own funeral, I'd like to be laid out in a coffin in my own house. I would like my coffin to be put in the double parlor, and I would like all the flowers to be white." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-own-funeral-id-like-to-be-laid-out-in-a-coffin-38832/.
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"My own funeral, I'd like to be laid out in a coffin in my own house. I would like my coffin to be put in the double parlor, and I would like all the flowers to be white." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-own-funeral-id-like-to-be-laid-out-in-a-coffin-38832/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








