"My parents always told me that if you want something, you can do whatever you have to do to get it. As long as it's not against someone else"
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The intent feels less like a grand philosophy than a piece of inherited home ethics, the kind that travels well in an industry built on auditions, competition, and constant comparison. For an actor, “wanting something” isn’t just desire; it’s a role, a reputation, a livelihood. The subtext is that drive is necessary, but so is restraint - not because restraint is saintly, but because the cost of unchecked ambition is relational and reputational. In a world where networking can become scheming and “confidence” can become conquest, her add-on clause is a boundary that protects both others and the self.
What makes it work is its realism: it doesn’t pretend ambition can be purified, only contained. Cotillard isn’t selling altruism; she’s outlining a workable code for competing without turning people into obstacles. It’s also a subtle rebuke to the mythology of ruthless success - the idea that winners are simply the ones willing to do the ugly things. Her version of wanting something still demands effort, but refuses the cheap drama of stepping on someone to feel taller.
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Cotillard, Marion. (2026, January 17). My parents always told me that if you want something, you can do whatever you have to do to get it. As long as it's not against someone else. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-parents-always-told-me-that-if-you-want-64954/
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Cotillard, Marion. "My parents always told me that if you want something, you can do whatever you have to do to get it. As long as it's not against someone else." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-parents-always-told-me-that-if-you-want-64954/.
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"My parents always told me that if you want something, you can do whatever you have to do to get it. As long as it's not against someone else." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-parents-always-told-me-that-if-you-want-64954/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.










