"My parents divorced when I was born, and my mother is a political science professor, like a feminist Mormon, which is sort of an oxymoron"
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The intent isn’t to dunk on her mother so much as to make legible a tension Americans already think they understand: religion (especially a highly structured one) versus feminism (coded as autonomy, dissent, modernity). Calling it an “oxymoron” preloads the room with assumptions about Mormon gender roles, then gives her plausible deniability with “sort of.” That hedge matters. It reads as affection mixed with skepticism, the tone of someone who grew up negotiating contradictions rather than choosing a clean team.
The subtext is about belonging in spaces that don’t easily overlap. A feminist Mormon professor is, culturally, a category error to outsiders - but to insiders it’s often a lived compromise, an attempt to reform from within, or simply a refusal to let one identity cancel another. Dushku’s phrasing performs a familiar celebrity move: convert private complexity into a neat, relatable paradox. It’s not academic critique; it’s a quick portrait of a household where ideology, faith, and family structure were never simple, and humor became the translator.
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| Topic | Divorce |
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Dushku, Eliza. (2026, January 15). My parents divorced when I was born, and my mother is a political science professor, like a feminist Mormon, which is sort of an oxymoron. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-parents-divorced-when-i-was-born-and-my-mother-155381/
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Dushku, Eliza. "My parents divorced when I was born, and my mother is a political science professor, like a feminist Mormon, which is sort of an oxymoron." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-parents-divorced-when-i-was-born-and-my-mother-155381/.
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"My parents divorced when I was born, and my mother is a political science professor, like a feminist Mormon, which is sort of an oxymoron." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-parents-divorced-when-i-was-born-and-my-mother-155381/. Accessed 6 Feb. 2026.


