"My parents felt that acting was far too insecure. Don't ask me what made them think that painting would be more secure"
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The intent isn’t bitterness so much as a gently sharpened shrug. By refusing to detail his parents’ logic ("Don’t ask me..."), he implies there wasn’t much logic there to begin with. That offhand dismissal also keeps the tone affectionate rather than accusatory: he’s laughing at the family myth-making, not prosecuting it. It’s a small masterclass in how performers talk about their origin stories without turning them into therapy.
Context matters: Hurt came up in a Britain where acting could read as precarious, faintly disreputable, or at least not "proper", depending on class and era. Painting, on the other hand, carries an old aura of cultivated seriousness - solitary, disciplined, museum-adjacent. Hurt punctures that hierarchy. The subtext is that all creative work is insecure; we just rank the insecurities differently. And in that ranking, parents reveal their own fears more than their children’s prospects.
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Hurt, John. (2026, January 16). My parents felt that acting was far too insecure. Don't ask me what made them think that painting would be more secure. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-parents-felt-that-acting-was-far-too-insecure-126310/
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Hurt, John. "My parents felt that acting was far too insecure. Don't ask me what made them think that painting would be more secure." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-parents-felt-that-acting-was-far-too-insecure-126310/.
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"My parents felt that acting was far too insecure. Don't ask me what made them think that painting would be more secure." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-parents-felt-that-acting-was-far-too-insecure-126310/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







