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Motivation Quote by Nancy Kerrigan

"My parents never pressured me to skate. They always said I could quit if I wanted to. They only expected me to skate when they had already paid for the expensive lessons. But, otherwise they said I could do what I wanted to do"

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Kerrigan’s line lands because it exposes a very American style of “no pressure” parenting: the kind that insists you’re free, right up until money enters the room. On the surface, her parents sound unusually hands-off for a sport famous for early specialization and punishing schedules. But the sly pivot - “They only expected me to skate when they had already paid for the expensive lessons” - reveals the real contract. Autonomy is celebrated in principle, while obligation quietly shows up on the receipt.

The intent feels less like a takedown than a clear-eyed, almost deadpan accounting of how support actually works in youth athletics. Figure skating is brutal not only physically but financially; lessons, ice time, costumes, and travel turn childhood into a family budget line item. Kerrigan’s phrasing carries the subtext of gratitude and pressure braided together: her parents weren’t coercive in the melodramatic sense, yet the economics of the sport created its own form of expectation. You can quit, sure - after you’ve honored the sunk cost.

In context, coming from an athlete whose career became tabloid mythology, the quote is refreshingly unglamorous. It frames success not as destiny or pure grit, but as something negotiated inside ordinary family dynamics: love expressed through investment, and investment that inevitably asks for returns. The humor isn’t punchline humor; it’s recognition. Anyone who’s ever been told “do what you want” while holding a pricey commitment hears the truth hiding in the kindness.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kerrigan, Nancy. (2026, January 17). My parents never pressured me to skate. They always said I could quit if I wanted to. They only expected me to skate when they had already paid for the expensive lessons. But, otherwise they said I could do what I wanted to do. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-parents-never-pressured-me-to-skate-they-51828/

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Kerrigan, Nancy. "My parents never pressured me to skate. They always said I could quit if I wanted to. They only expected me to skate when they had already paid for the expensive lessons. But, otherwise they said I could do what I wanted to do." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-parents-never-pressured-me-to-skate-they-51828/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My parents never pressured me to skate. They always said I could quit if I wanted to. They only expected me to skate when they had already paid for the expensive lessons. But, otherwise they said I could do what I wanted to do." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-parents-never-pressured-me-to-skate-they-51828/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.

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Nancy Kerrigan (born October 13, 1969) is a Athlete from USA.

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