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Daily Inspiration Quote by Nicole Kidman

"My parents thought it was nice to develop my imagination, but they never seriously thought that anything would ever come of it. They said that I couldn't be an actress because I would be taller than all my leading men, so I thought I would be a writer instead"

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Kidman turns a familiar showbiz origin story into a sly anatomy of how ambition gets rerouted by other people’s “practicality.” Her parents are supportive in the safe, bourgeois way: imagination is “nice,” like piano lessons or sport, a character-building hobby. The bite is in “never seriously thought that anything would ever come of it,” a phrase that exposes the quiet ceiling adults place on children’s creative lives. Encouragement is offered, belief is withheld.

Then comes the brutal comedy of the industry’s gatekeeping logic: not talent, not range, not charisma, but height. The line about being “taller than all my leading men” is funny because it’s absurdly specific and painfully real. It captures how the camera’s romantic grammar (man taller, woman smaller) polices bodies, especially women’s, and how that policing gets internalized early. Kidman presents it as parental concern, but the subtext is cultural: even loving parents speak in the accent of an industry that reduces women to proportions.

Her pivot - “so I thought I would be a writer instead” - lands as both compromise and rebellion. If acting is barred by the physics of gender norms, writing looks like a space where the mind, not the body, gets to lead. There’s also an understated irony: she became an actress anyway, turning the supposed disqualifier into part of her presence. The quote isn’t just about dreaming; it’s about how dreams survive by shape-shifting around the world’s arbitrary measurements.

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Nicole Kidman

Nicole Kidman (born June 21, 1967) is a Actress from Australia.

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