"My relationship to reality has been so utterly skewed for so long that I don't even notice it any more. It's just my reality"
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As an actor, Hawke isn’t talking about hallucinations so much as the long-term warping that comes from living in layered selves. Performance, publicity, and ambition demand a kind of strategic dissociation: you learn to watch yourself being watched. Over time, that posture stops feeling like a posture. The subtext is about habituation - how the mind protects itself by making the skew feel standard, how coping mechanisms harden into identity.
There’s also a cultural tell here: celebrity as a reality-distortion field. In a world of curated narratives, interviews, and roles that follow you home, “real life” becomes negotiable. Hawke’s phrasing refuses the clean redemption arc; he doesn’t promise a return to authenticity. He’s describing a permanent reframing, the way modern life - fame, yes, but also relentless mediation - trains people to accept cognitive dissonance as baseline.
It works because it’s not self-pitying. It’s blunt, almost clinical, and that restraint makes it feel more true: the scariest distortions are the ones you stop noticing.
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Hawke, Ethan. (2026, January 16). My relationship to reality has been so utterly skewed for so long that I don't even notice it any more. It's just my reality. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-relationship-to-reality-has-been-so-utterly-128052/
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Hawke, Ethan. "My relationship to reality has been so utterly skewed for so long that I don't even notice it any more. It's just my reality." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-relationship-to-reality-has-been-so-utterly-128052/.
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"My relationship to reality has been so utterly skewed for so long that I don't even notice it any more. It's just my reality." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-relationship-to-reality-has-been-so-utterly-128052/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.





