"My responsibility to God is to live. That's the gift he gave me. What I do with it is up to me"
About this Quote
The subtext is classic Mary J. Blige, shaped by a public narrative of pain transmuted into performance. For an artist whose brand has long been emotional truth-telling, “to live” isn’t a Hallmark slogan. It’s code for getting through addiction, heartbreak, poverty, and the psychic wear of being watched. She doesn’t say her responsibility is to be happy, pure, or successful. Living is the baseline victory; everything else is choice, craft, grit.
The phrasing matters. “Responsibility to God” could signal submission, but she flips it into empowerment with “What I do with it is up to me.” That pivot is the whole cultural move: spirituality without surrendering autonomy. It’s a statement that can speak to fans who grew up with church language but won’t accept fate as an excuse, and to anyone who’s had to rebuild a self while the world tried to narrate them as a victim.
In a celebrity ecosystem that rewards either inspirational polish or mess-as-content, Blige’s line is neither. It’s a manifesto for earned adulthood: life is granted, meaning is made.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Blige, Mary J. (2026, January 17). My responsibility to God is to live. That's the gift he gave me. What I do with it is up to me. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-responsibility-to-god-is-to-live-thats-the-81990/
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Blige, Mary J. "My responsibility to God is to live. That's the gift he gave me. What I do with it is up to me." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-responsibility-to-god-is-to-live-thats-the-81990/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My responsibility to God is to live. That's the gift he gave me. What I do with it is up to me." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-responsibility-to-god-is-to-live-thats-the-81990/. Accessed 24 Feb. 2026.









