"My sister-in-law is a painter, and I'll say, how long did it take you to paint that painting. She'll say, It took me maybe three days, but it took me all my life to get the skills to paint that painting"
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The sister-in-law’s answer flips the accounting. Yes, the painting took three days. The real cost was the invisible accumulation: years of bad sketches, trained eyes, muscle memory, failures, mentors, stolen hours, and the slow rewiring of taste. The punchline isn’t sentimental; it’s a quiet assertion that skill is time, just time distributed across a life rather than a calendar week.
Doerr, a novelist, is also defending his own craft without making it about himself. Writing looks like “sitting,” just as painting can look like “brushstrokes.” The subtext is that creative work is often misread as effortless when it’s simply efficient - the efficiency of someone who has already paid. In an era of side-hustle metrics and instant-content churn, the quote insists on a different truth: mastery compresses labor into something that resembles ease, and that resemblance is exactly what amateurs mistake for luck.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Doerr, Anthony. (2026, January 17). My sister-in-law is a painter, and I'll say, how long did it take you to paint that painting. She'll say, It took me maybe three days, but it took me all my life to get the skills to paint that painting. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-sister-in-law-is-a-painter-and-ill-say-how-33672/
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Doerr, Anthony. "My sister-in-law is a painter, and I'll say, how long did it take you to paint that painting. She'll say, It took me maybe three days, but it took me all my life to get the skills to paint that painting." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-sister-in-law-is-a-painter-and-ill-say-how-33672/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My sister-in-law is a painter, and I'll say, how long did it take you to paint that painting. She'll say, It took me maybe three days, but it took me all my life to get the skills to paint that painting." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-sister-in-law-is-a-painter-and-ill-say-how-33672/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.






