"My sorrow, when she's here with me, thinks these dark days of autumn rain are beautiful as days can be; she loves the bare, the withered tree; she walks the sodden pasture lane"
About this Quote
The subtext is relational. Frost’s speaker isn’t battling sadness; he’s listening to it. That’s unsettling, and it’s the point. Sorrow “loves the bare, the withered tree” because it recognizes itself there: stripped, skeletal, honest. The diction is plain, almost stubbornly unshowy, which makes the emotional claim harder to dismiss. No grand metaphors, no orchestral swell; just a lane, a pasture, wet ground. The specificity is the seduction. You can feel the “sodden” underfoot.
Context matters: Frost’s New England is never just scenery. It’s a moral weather system where nature reflects temperament without becoming a Hallmark symbol. This passage lands in that Frostian zone where bleakness is neither cured nor condemned. Instead, it’s given a route to walk, a landscape to inhabit, a kind of clarity. The poem suggests that sorrow can be a form of attention - not pleasant, but piercingly alive.
Quote Details
| Topic | Sadness |
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| Source | Robert Frost, 'My November Guest,' A Boy's Will, 1913. |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Frost, Robert. (2026, January 14). My sorrow, when she's here with me, thinks these dark days of autumn rain are beautiful as days can be; she loves the bare, the withered tree; she walks the sodden pasture lane. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-sorrow-when-shes-here-with-me-thinks-these-36043/
Chicago Style
Frost, Robert. "My sorrow, when she's here with me, thinks these dark days of autumn rain are beautiful as days can be; she loves the bare, the withered tree; she walks the sodden pasture lane." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-sorrow-when-shes-here-with-me-thinks-these-36043/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My sorrow, when she's here with me, thinks these dark days of autumn rain are beautiful as days can be; she loves the bare, the withered tree; she walks the sodden pasture lane." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-sorrow-when-shes-here-with-me-thinks-these-36043/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.












