"My wife wanted my children to have some Chinese culture and education. She believes the children need to learn two languages and two cultures"
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The phrasing “some Chinese culture” is telling. “Some” acknowledges dilution and distance; it’s the word you use when you know the transmission won’t be total, when the kids are growing up inside an English-dominant world that treats “Asian” as aesthetic before it treats it as lived experience. Li isn’t selling purity. He’s articulating a realistic, protective kind of biculturalism: enough fluency to resist becoming a caricature of your own background.
Then comes the real thesis: “two languages and two cultures.” That parallel structure is parental pragmatism dressed as philosophy. Language is presented as the gateway drug to culture, but also as leverage - cognitive, social, even geopolitical. For a global star who made his career moving between Hong Kong cinema and Hollywood, bilingualism isn’t just enrichment; it’s insurance against being pinned to one narrative.
The subtext hums with the immigrant-family fear that children can lose a past without ever noticing. Li’s intent is to normalize dual belonging, not as a feel-good slogan, but as a skill set his family can actually live in.
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"My wife wanted my children to have some Chinese culture and education. She believes the children need to learn two languages and two cultures." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-wife-wanted-my-children-to-have-some-chinese-147104/. Accessed 7 Feb. 2026.

