"My wife was my greatest asset. I didn't marry her until after World War II, but she has complemented me in every job I've ever had"
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The timing matters. "After World War II" signals a generational script in which the war delays domestic life, then sanctifies it. A postwar marriage becomes part of the stabilization project: house, career, hierarchy, a nation trying to convert mass mobilization into normalcy. Westmoreland presents the relationship as a continuity device, the steady base that makes successive postings, promotions, and public scrutiny survivable. "Complemented me in every job" is both praise and a confession that the job came first - not necessarily out of coldness, but out of vocation and institutional culture.
Subtextually, the line participates in the mid-century mythology of the military spouse: unpaid labor as invisible infrastructure. "Complemented" politely covers a range of work - hosting, relocating, smoothing social friction, absorbing stress, managing the private costs of public service. It s also a careful, legacy-minded sentence from a controversial figure: in the shadow of Vietnam, he can t easily point to unambiguous wins, but he can point to loyalty, steadiness, and the one partnership he frames as unequivocally successful.
Quote Details
| Topic | Husband & Wife |
|---|---|
| Source | Verified source: Vietnam Magazine: Interview with General William C. Westm... (William Westmoreland, 2003)
Evidence:
She was my greatest asset. I didn’t marry her until after World War II, but she has complemented me in every job I’ve ever had. (Originally published in the December 2003 issue; web version lines 263-264). I found this quote in a primary-source interview with Westmoreland conducted on September 23, 1990. The article states it was originally published in the December 2003 issue of Vietnam Magazine, and the quote appears when he is discussing his wife Kitsy and his years as superintendent of West Point. The wording differs slightly from the version in your query: the interview has 'She was my greatest asset,' not 'My wife was my greatest asset.' I also checked likely earlier primary candidates such as his memoir A Soldier Reports (Doubleday, 1976), but the available searchable/snippet evidence did not verify this exact quote there. Based on what I could verify, the earliest confirmed primary-source appearance is this 1990 interview, later published in 2003. It may have been spoken elsewhere earlier, but I could not confirm an earlier publication or speech from primary evidence. |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Westmoreland, William. (2026, March 16). My wife was my greatest asset. I didn't marry her until after World War II, but she has complemented me in every job I've ever had. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-wife-was-my-greatest-asset-i-didnt-marry-her-117973/
Chicago Style
Westmoreland, William. "My wife was my greatest asset. I didn't marry her until after World War II, but she has complemented me in every job I've ever had." FixQuotes. March 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-wife-was-my-greatest-asset-i-didnt-marry-her-117973/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"My wife was my greatest asset. I didn't marry her until after World War II, but she has complemented me in every job I've ever had." FixQuotes, 16 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/my-wife-was-my-greatest-asset-i-didnt-marry-her-117973/. Accessed 17 Mar. 2026.





