"Nature chooses who will be transgender; individuals don't choose this"
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The subtext is defensive because the battleground is defensive: trans people are routinely asked to justify their existence as if it were an elective lifestyle. By framing transness as something imposed rather than selected, Ruehl offers a form of protection that many allies reach for instinctively. It’s also a plea for empathy that doesn’t require deep conceptual buy-in. You don’t have to understand gender theory; you just have to accept that this isn’t a whim.
Still, the line carries a strategic trade-off. “Nature” is a powerful shield, but it can smuggle in a narrow idea that legitimacy depends on biological proof, as if rights are granted by lab results. The intent is solidarity; the risk is turning identity into a courtroom exhibit. In the current climate, that tension is the point: the quote is less about metaphysics than about insisting, bluntly, that people deserve dignity without needing to argue their way into it.
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| Topic | Equality |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ruehl, Mercedes. (2026, January 17). Nature chooses who will be transgender; individuals don't choose this. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/nature-chooses-who-will-be-transgender-77590/
Chicago Style
Ruehl, Mercedes. "Nature chooses who will be transgender; individuals don't choose this." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/nature-chooses-who-will-be-transgender-77590/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Nature chooses who will be transgender; individuals don't choose this." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/nature-chooses-who-will-be-transgender-77590/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.




