"Negotiating means getting the best of your opponent"
About this Quote
The intent feels twofold. On the surface, it’s blunt advice: don’t confuse talk with fairness. In practice, negotiating is a power exercise, and pretending otherwise is how you get played. The subtext is even sharper: the very framing of “opponent” reveals a worldview shaped by institutions that rarely met artists, Black men, or working people halfway. If you’re always the one expected to be grateful, “getting the best” becomes self-defense, not greed.
Context matters here. Gaye’s career unfolded inside a music industry famous for predatory contracts and soft coercion: smiles, promises, creative control dangled like a reward, then yanked away. Read through that lens, the quote sounds less like macho posturing and more like an artist who learned that “reasonable” is often code for “compliant.” The cynicism works because it’s clean and unsentimental; it forces listeners to confront the uncomfortable truth that negotiation often isn’t a search for mutual benefit but a measurement of who needs whom more.
It’s a line that turns civility into strategy, and strategy into survival.
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| Topic | Management |
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Gaye, Marvin. (2026, January 15). Negotiating means getting the best of your opponent. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/negotiating-means-getting-the-best-of-your-88698/
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Gaye, Marvin. "Negotiating means getting the best of your opponent." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/negotiating-means-getting-the-best-of-your-88698/.
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"Negotiating means getting the best of your opponent." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/negotiating-means-getting-the-best-of-your-88698/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.






