"Negotiation in the classic diplomatic sense assumes parties more anxious to agree than to disagree"
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The craft here is in the asymmetry of the verbs. “Anxious to agree” suggests more than rational preference; it implies urgency, even fear - the sense that disorder is costlier than compromise. “Anxious to disagree,” by contrast, captures a darker motive: that conflict itself can be useful. States may need enemies to consolidate power, justify budgets, shore up ideology, or test resolve. In that world, talks are not a bridge but a battlefield, where delay, ambiguity, and performative reasonableness become weapons.
Acheson’s subtext is a rebuke to naive faith in process. You can’t proceduralize your way out of a clash of objectives. The real question isn’t whether the negotiators are skilled, or whether the agenda is well designed. It’s whether both sides see agreement as a strategic gain rather than a strategic surrender. Without that, diplomacy doesn’t fail because we didn’t talk enough; it fails because talking was never the point.
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"Negotiation in the classic diplomatic sense assumes parties more anxious to agree than to disagree." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/negotiation-in-the-classic-diplomatic-sense-145801/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




