"Neither blame or praise yourself"
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Self-reproach and self-congratulation are twin forms of vanity, and Plutarch’s line slices through both with a calm, almost clinical severity. “Neither blame nor praise yourself” isn’t a call to self-erasure; it’s a warning about how easily the mind turns inward and starts awarding medals or handing down sentences as if it were a private court. The wit is in the symmetry: blame and praise look like opposites, but Plutarch treats them as the same distraction wearing different masks.
In the Greco-Roman moral tradition Plutarch inhabited, character is forged in practice, not in narration. To “blame yourself” is to rehearse failure until it becomes identity; to “praise yourself” is to fossilize success into entitlement. Both feed ego, and ego is the enemy of clear judgment. The subtext is tactical: stop spending your mental budget on self-commentary and redirect it toward steadier virtues - restraint, attention, and correction.
Plutarch also knew politics and status games intimately; he wrote for elites who could afford endless self-mythology. The line reads like a small antidote to that culture. Self-praise invites complacency; self-blame invites paralysis. Either way, you’re still the protagonist of your own melodrama. The Stoic-adjacent edge here is not “feel nothing,” but “don’t be so easily impressed by yourself,” in either direction. The aim is freedom: the ability to act rightly without needing the extra sugar of applause or the poison of condemnation.
In the Greco-Roman moral tradition Plutarch inhabited, character is forged in practice, not in narration. To “blame yourself” is to rehearse failure until it becomes identity; to “praise yourself” is to fossilize success into entitlement. Both feed ego, and ego is the enemy of clear judgment. The subtext is tactical: stop spending your mental budget on self-commentary and redirect it toward steadier virtues - restraint, attention, and correction.
Plutarch also knew politics and status games intimately; he wrote for elites who could afford endless self-mythology. The line reads like a small antidote to that culture. Self-praise invites complacency; self-blame invites paralysis. Either way, you’re still the protagonist of your own melodrama. The Stoic-adjacent edge here is not “feel nothing,” but “don’t be so easily impressed by yourself,” in either direction. The aim is freedom: the ability to act rightly without needing the extra sugar of applause or the poison of condemnation.
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