"Neurotics complain of their illness, but they make the most of it, and when it comes to talking it away from them they will defend it like a lioness her young"
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The lioness image does the real work. A patient doesn’t defend neurosis because it’s pleasant; they defend it because it has become intimate, familiar, and protective. By comparing the symptom to offspring, Freud hints at unconscious investment: the symptom is something the psyche has produced, nurtured, and learned to rely on. Take it away too quickly and you’re not “helping,” you’re threatening a hard-won adaptation.
Context matters. Freud is speaking from the clinic, from the era when “talking cure” optimism met stubborn repetition compulsion. He’s outlining a central obstacle to analysis: resistance. The subtext is a warning to therapists and patients alike: insight isn’t the same as surrender. People can articulate their pain fluently while still guarding the structure that pain props up.
There’s also a quiet rebuke of sentimental pity. Freud refuses to romanticize illness, but he also refuses to treat patients as simple victims. The sting of the sentence is its insistence that the psyche can be both injured and cunning - not in a villainous way, but in the way survival often is.
Quote Details
| Topic | Mental Health |
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| Source | Unverified source: The Question of Lay Analysis (Sigmund Freud, 1926)
Evidence: Chapter 5 (German Project Gutenberg); p. 221 in one English translation PDF scan. Primary-source match is in Freud’s work commonly translated as The Question of Lay Analysis (German: Die Frage der Laienanalyse, 1926). An English rendering appears as: “They complain of their illness but exploit it... Other candidates (2) The Sane (Todd Andrew Rohrer, 2009) compilation98.5% ... Sigmund Freud “Neurotics complain of their illness, but [they] make the most of it, and when it comes to talking ... Sigmund Freud (Sigmund Freud) compilation34.4% sions the functional importance of the ego is manifested in the fact that normally control over the approaches to mot... |
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Freud, Sigmund. (2026, January 13). Neurotics complain of their illness, but they make the most of it, and when it comes to talking it away from them they will defend it like a lioness her young. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/neurotics-complain-of-their-illness-but-they-make-41875/
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Freud, Sigmund. "Neurotics complain of their illness, but they make the most of it, and when it comes to talking it away from them they will defend it like a lioness her young." FixQuotes. January 13, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/neurotics-complain-of-their-illness-but-they-make-41875/.
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"Neurotics complain of their illness, but they make the most of it, and when it comes to talking it away from them they will defend it like a lioness her young." FixQuotes, 13 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/neurotics-complain-of-their-illness-but-they-make-41875/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.








