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"Never argue at the dinner table, for the one who is not hungry always gets the best of the argument"

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Voltaire doesn’t dress this up as moral advice; he disguises a social indictment as a household tip. The dinner table, supposedly a site of civility and communion, becomes his miniature stage for how power really operates: not through better ideas, but through unequal stakes. If you’re hungry, you’re negotiating with your body while you’re negotiating with words. Your attention fractures, your patience thins, your willingness to prolong conflict collapses. The “best of the argument” goes not to the wise but to the uninvested - the person who can afford to treat debate as a sport because they aren’t paying a price in discomfort.

That’s the subtext that makes the line sting. Voltaire, the great anatomist of hypocrisy, is pointing at the way polite society fetishizes “reason” while quietly rigging the conditions under which reason is performed. The salon ideal - discourse as enlightened exchange - is undermined by a blunt physiological truth: hunger is not just a feeling; it’s leverage. The quote reads like etiquette, but it’s really about asymmetry: whoever is satiated has time, calm, and status on their side. Whoever is hungry is already losing, because the argument is happening on someone else’s schedule, in someone else’s comfort.

In an 18th-century context, that’s not incidental. Voltaire lived amid elites who congratulated themselves on rationality while relying on hierarchies that kept others precarious. “Never argue” isn’t cowardice; it’s a warning about forums that pretend to be fair while being structurally biased - a reminder that winning an argument often means you didn’t need it to begin with.

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Later attribution: The Wallflower's Revenge (SWEETBLUNCH, 2015) modern compilationID: 2oZVEAAAQBAJ
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Voltaire. (2026, January 13). Never argue at the dinner table, for the one who is not hungry always gets the best of the argument. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/never-argue-at-the-dinner-table-for-the-one-who-10660/

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"Never argue at the dinner table, for the one who is not hungry always gets the best of the argument." FixQuotes, 13 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/never-argue-at-the-dinner-table-for-the-one-who-10660/. Accessed 5 Feb. 2026.

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Voltaire (November 21, 1694 - May 30, 1778) was a Writer from France.

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