"Never go on trips with anyone you do not love"
About this Quote
The subtext is classic Hemingway: sentiment, but with the word “love” doing heavy lifting precisely because he rarely lingers in it. Love here isn’t romance as mood; it’s endurance as a verb. It means you can stomach someone’s bad sleep, their panic when the train is missed, their stubbornness with directions, their selfishness when hungry. It’s a standard of grace under pressure, exported from his bullrings and battlefields into the mundane wars of tourism.
Context matters: Hemingway was a compulsive mover through Paris, Pamplona, Key West, Cuba, and war zones, and his personal life was famously turbulent. He knew how quickly camaraderie curdles when the weather turns, the cash runs low, or the ego takes the wheel. The line is protective advice, but also a confession: travel doesn’t create character so much as reveal what you’ve been politely ignoring.
Quote Details
| Topic | Love |
|---|---|
| Source | A Moveable Feast — Ernest Hemingway (memoir, posthumously published 1964). Contains the line: “Never go on trips with anyone you do not love.” |
| Cite | Cite this Quote |
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