"Never have a club in your bag that you're afraid to hit"
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Golf has a way of exposing the little private negotiations we make with ourselves, and Tom Kite’s line goes straight for the ugliest one: carrying a tool you don’t trust, then acting surprised when you play scared. “Never have a club in your bag that you’re afraid to hit” isn’t about equipment snobbery; it’s about psychological clutter. A single “problem” club becomes a portable anxiety machine, waiting for the moment when the course forces your hand and your swing tightens before you even address the ball.
Kite, a meticulous, workmanlike pro from an era that prized repeatable fundamentals, is talking about intent under pressure. If you’re afraid of the club, you’ve already ceded the shot. Fear turns decision-making into avoidance: you choose the safer line, the layup, the half-committed swing that produces exactly the miss you were trying not to hit. The subtext is ruthless: confidence isn’t a vibe, it’s a system. You curate your bag the way you curate your habits, removing the objects that invite second-guessing and replacing them with options you can commit to.
There’s also an implied ethic of honesty. Either practice until that club is yours, or take it out. Keeping it is a form of self-deception, like packing for a trip with clothes you never wear. Kite’s advice is small and practical, which is why it scales: in sports, work, relationships, the things you “might need” but don’t trust end up steering you.
Kite, a meticulous, workmanlike pro from an era that prized repeatable fundamentals, is talking about intent under pressure. If you’re afraid of the club, you’ve already ceded the shot. Fear turns decision-making into avoidance: you choose the safer line, the layup, the half-committed swing that produces exactly the miss you were trying not to hit. The subtext is ruthless: confidence isn’t a vibe, it’s a system. You curate your bag the way you curate your habits, removing the objects that invite second-guessing and replacing them with options you can commit to.
There’s also an implied ethic of honesty. Either practice until that club is yours, or take it out. Keeping it is a form of self-deception, like packing for a trip with clothes you never wear. Kite’s advice is small and practical, which is why it scales: in sports, work, relationships, the things you “might need” but don’t trust end up steering you.
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