"Never in the way, and never out of the way"
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The line’s elegance is its double bind. "In the way" names the obvious danger: obstructing a monarch’s desires, schedule, or vanity. But "out of the way" is the subtler threat: absence reads as disloyalty, independence, or secret alignment with a rival faction. The courtier must hover at the king’s edge like a well-trained shadow, ready to serve, careful not to demand. That balance is not just personal grace; it’s political calibration.
Charles II ruled after civil war, regicide, and a decade of Puritan rule that made monarchy itself feel contingent. Restoration culture prized wit, ease, and the performance of nonchalance, yet it rested on raw anxieties about plots, shifting alliances, and the legitimacy of the crown. The phrase captures that tension: the court becomes a stage where the best move is to seem like you’re not making one.
It also reveals something about Charles. He’s remembered as shrewd, sociable, and allergic to zealotry. This maxim is governance by atmosphere: keep people close, keep them manageable, and reward the art of knowing one’s place without being told.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
II, Charles. (2026, January 16). Never in the way, and never out of the way. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/never-in-the-way-and-never-out-of-the-way-123788/
Chicago Style
II, Charles. "Never in the way, and never out of the way." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/never-in-the-way-and-never-out-of-the-way-123788/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Never in the way, and never out of the way." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/never-in-the-way-and-never-out-of-the-way-123788/. Accessed 25 Feb. 2026.










