"Never make a companion equal to a brother"
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A line like this isn’t offering friendship advice so much as drawing a hard border around loyalty. Hesiod writes from a world where kinship is infrastructure: inheritance, protection, reputation, and survival move through bloodlines. “Brother” isn’t a Hallmark category; it’s a legal and economic unit. So the warning lands with the chill clarity of someone who’s watched trust become a liability.
The verb choice matters. “Make” suggests an act of social manufacture, a deliberate promotion: you can choose companions, but you can’t alchemize them into family without paying a price. The subtext is not that friends are worthless; it’s that the obligations you attach to them can boomerang. Treat a companion like a brother and you extend brother-level access to your resources, your secrets, your standing. If they fail you, you don’t just lose a friend; you invite disorder into the household, where Greek moral thinking locates the stakes.
It also hints at a darker realism about intimacy. Brothers can betray you too, but the relationship is nonnegotiable; you manage it because you must. Companions are optional, which makes their loyalty inherently conditional. Hesiod, famously preoccupied with labor, fairness, and the fragility of justice, is telling you to be precise about categories. Confusing them is how people get exploited, and in a small agrarian society, exploitation isn’t an episode, it’s a fate.
The line’s power is its austerity: one sentence, and an entire social order snaps into focus.
The verb choice matters. “Make” suggests an act of social manufacture, a deliberate promotion: you can choose companions, but you can’t alchemize them into family without paying a price. The subtext is not that friends are worthless; it’s that the obligations you attach to them can boomerang. Treat a companion like a brother and you extend brother-level access to your resources, your secrets, your standing. If they fail you, you don’t just lose a friend; you invite disorder into the household, where Greek moral thinking locates the stakes.
It also hints at a darker realism about intimacy. Brothers can betray you too, but the relationship is nonnegotiable; you manage it because you must. Companions are optional, which makes their loyalty inherently conditional. Hesiod, famously preoccupied with labor, fairness, and the fragility of justice, is telling you to be precise about categories. Confusing them is how people get exploited, and in a small agrarian society, exploitation isn’t an episode, it’s a fate.
The line’s power is its austerity: one sentence, and an entire social order snaps into focus.
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