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Motivation Quote by Mike Tomlin

"Never say never, but never"

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A coach’s mantra colliding with a coach’s reality, in six words. Mike Tomlin’s "Never say never, but never" lands because it performs the exact tension he’s managing: football demands mental flexibility, but leadership demands guardrails. The first clause is motivational boilerplate on purpose, the kind of open-ended optimism players can carry into a short week, a hostile stadium, a season that refuses to behave. Then comes the snap-back: "but never". It’s not a contradiction so much as a boundary set at speed, the verbal equivalent of slamming the brakes before the message turns into permission.

The intent is control. Tomlin is famous for refusing to feed the press anything that can be weaponized against his team, and this line reads like a live demonstration of that discipline. It offers a quote-shaped object that sounds philosophical, even meme-ready, while denying you the useful part: the actual scenario where "never" might be revised. Subtext: adaptability is a virtue, but I decide when it applies. Players hear accountability; reporters hear a dead end.

Context matters because "never" in sports is both taboo and seductive. Fans and media want absolutes: he’ll never start, they’ll never trade him, the season is never over. Tomlin’s phrase acknowledges that temptation and then shuts it down, signaling a culture that avoids self-fulfilling prophecies without indulging in magical thinking. It’s wit with purpose: not stand-up comedy, but a coach’s compact way of saying, "Stay flexible. Stay disciplined. And stop asking me to promise the future."

Quote Details

TopicWitty One-Liners
SourcePress conference (Jan. 17, 2012) response to whether he’d coach at the college level (e.g., Penn State rumors)
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Tomlin, Mike. (n.d.). Never say never, but never. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/never-say-never-but-never-184464/

Chicago Style
Tomlin, Mike. "Never say never, but never." FixQuotes. Accessed February 2, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/never-say-never-but-never-184464/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Never say never, but never." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/never-say-never-but-never-184464/. Accessed 2 Feb. 2026.

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Mike Tomlin (born March 15, 1972) is a Coach from USA.

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